Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Female Psychopaths - Envy can be the trigger!

The female psychopath is extremely envious.  Envy can trigger her motive to destroy.  If she believes you may be receiving more attention or have something more than she does ... watch out!  She may target you for a fall, and you won't even feel it coming!

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Monday, March 28, 2016

Female Psychopaths - Enjoy being CRUEL ...

Research shows that psychopaths find being cruel enjoyable and do not enjoy being kind.

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Saturday, March 26, 2016

Female Psychopath - Beware of Flattery!

Psychopaths can be witty and appear very likeable.  They are great for laying on the flatteries, especially when you have been targeted to serve their needs.  Psychopaths can feign being helpful ... but there is always something in it for them!

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Friday, March 25, 2016

Female Psychopaths - Sting like a Scorpion

"The female psychopath walks among us.  She may charm like a songbird, but will sting like a scorpion."  --quoting, J. Reid Meloy, Ph.D., Clinical Professor of Psychiatry, University of California, San Diego, in Born to Destroy ... Psychopathy in Females by Winifred Rule.

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Thursday, March 24, 2016

Female Psychopath - $$$ Cost from Psychopaths

Psychopaths cause at least $460 billion of direct and indirect losses to society every year (Kiehl & Hoffman, Jurimetrics,, Summer 2011, p. 382).   It is likely that this statistic, which was very conservatively drawn, is even much larger.  The financial impact of psychopaths is huge!!!

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Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Female Psychopaths - Seek to even the score!

The female psychopath believes she was cheated out of life's bounty, and it is up to her to even the score. Beware!

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Saturday, March 19, 2016

Female Psychopaths - Cunning and Manipulative

Female psychopaths can be very cunning and manipulative.  They will often try to elicit a target's sympathy through artful acting and schemes, but beware ... she is setting the trap! 

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Thursday, March 17, 2016

Female Psychopaths - Two Features

Two essential features of the psychopath are lovelessness and guiltlessness.  Could you imagine ... the psychopath has no ability or capability of loving anyone? 

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Sunday, March 13, 2016

Female Psychopath - no Peace, something "Wrong"

If you have a psychopath in your home, you will be painfully aware that something is wrong.  There will be no peace, and you will feel the presence of chaos as they lie, cheat, and turn your life upside down.  You cannot get close to them—you cannot reach them, yet at times they can be witty and helpful.
They will spoil your joy and happiness.  They are not loyal and will poison you to others behind your back.  They will return all your good favors with misery.  They are deceitful, aggressive and unfeeling.  They have a glossy, charming side to outsiders who will believe all the ugly stories they will tell about you.  You know in your heart they are “Different” from what is normal.  Yet you cannot pinpoint what is wrong.  You may be living with a psychopath!

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Saturday, March 12, 2016

Female Psychopaths - small clues

"Small clues can lead to big revelations!"  Taken by themselves, individual incidents may not determine if someone is a psychopath. You have to add up the incidents and keep track of the totality of broken promises, hostile suggestions, charming manipulative schemes, demonstrations of callousness and lack of regard.  You may discover you have a psychopath in your midst!

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Friday, March 11, 2016

Female Psychopaths -Your Experiences

Feel free to share your personal experiences that you think may have been caused by a psychopathic woman.

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Female Psychopaths - 1% to 4% of population

Psychopaths may make up 1 to 4 % of the population.  Dr. Robert Hare, the preeminent psychopathy expert, mentions the 1% statistic in his writings, and Dr. Martha Stout, another expert, suggests the number may be as high as 4%.

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Thursday, March 10, 2016

Female Psychopaths Politicians

Research shows that people who show substantial psychopathic traits often gravitate towards positions of influence and power. Some pursue politics as the perfect vehicle for promoting their innate narcissism while exploiting people and situations for extreme personal gain.

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Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Spotting female psychopaths

My mother and sister display high levels of psychopathic traits.  Living with them enabled me to see their entire personalities—not just what the psychiatrist or psychologist sees at the opposite side of the desk.   They sought to destroy me whenever possible.  Their strategy came in the form of innuendo to undermine self-esteem, or to bully me and turn friends and family against me by poisoning those who knew me behind my back.  There is no end to what they would do to shatter my life.  They were pathological liars, in many ways more cunning and manipulative than males who display psychopathic traits.

My mother and sister desire to be the center of attention and demand center stage.  Around people, their voices rise octaves above everyone else while their arms flail in all directions, turning all attention to themselves. Listen closely to their style of speech—how they manage to play the victim.  They may shed crocodile tears to play on your sympathy, and the next moment their tears can transform into raucous laughter. Their “personalities” turn on and off like neon signs.

You dare not challenge them.  This could trigger a ballistic response.  Both my mother and sister are known for their histrionics. Their award winning performances are convincing enough to persuade listeners to believe their side of the story--even after hearing your side first.  They resort to whatever means to get what they want, and this includes flirtations with married men, and coopting through seduction. In the end, they are loyal to no one.  They believe they are entitled to everything while it pleases them to give you nothing.  They gloat over others’ misfortune and while gloating, you may even notice a smirk on their faces.  After all, why should anyone else have more than they!  They can steal or even deliberately damage your treasured possession, but if they get caught, they will never apologize because it is you who is crazy.  They distort all stories in their favor, and blame others for what they do.

At the core, neither my mother nor sister likes herself.  But do not feel sorry for them.  No matter what you do, no matter what you give, they remain ungrateful.  They are extremely envious and desire to obtain everything that they want since they believe they were cheated out of life’s bounty, and it is up to them to even the score. What they want is impossible to get.  How come the movie producers are not banging down their doors? How come they did not get long, stilted legs like Doris Day?  Mind you, what they want has no end and brings no satisfaction.  They appreciate nothing.  Beware  of  confidential information.  They are adept at sidling up to people.  They can size you up in a moment while you are still trying to figure them out.  There is no choice but to avoid them because they will only bring pain, chaos, confusion, and worse.

My book, Born to Destroy, is one of the first instructional books on the female psychopath in the family setting.  It is my personal story, designed to lend insight to all those confused souls who are living a similar existence as my own.  It may be purchased at