Female Psychopaths - Charm wins Trust

“Perhaps one of the most effective skills psychopaths use to get the trust of people is their ability to charm them.”     Babiak, Paul and Robert D. Hare. Snakes in Suits.

 

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Female Psychopaths - Sadistic from Envy or Hatred

"Sadistic behavior most often occurs when objects are perceived as the embodiment of goodness and stimulate envy; or objects are perceived as helpless and dependent and stimulate hatred."
      --J. Reid Meloy, Ph.D. in The Mark of Cain, p.193

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Female Psychopaths - Not Psychotic and Ready to Pounce!

Psychopaths are not psychotic ... they are not mentally ill, but rational.  They know what they are doing and they know why.  They choose what they do by their own free will.  They decide their course of action, setting traps, lying in wait, ready to pounce!

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Female Psychopaths - Psychodynamics of Irresponsibility

Irresponsibility -- provoked by envy, fueled by money and then justified by scapegoating, illustrates some of the frequently encountered psychodynamics of female psychopathy.

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Female Psychopaths - Hollow Words

"[She] exhibits a facility with words that mean little to [her], form without substance. ... [her] seemingly good judgment and social sense are only word deep."
         -Robert D. Hare, Without Conscience
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Female Psychopaths - Accuse and Confuse!

A simple observation ... but always true ... the female psychopath will accuse you of doing to her what she did to you ... enough to spin your head, and so convincingly, that you may even doubt yourself!

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Female Psychopaths - Lies, Lies and more Lies !

The original master of psychopathy trait analysis was Dr. Hervey Cleckley, a psychiatrist and professor of neuropsychiatry.  His case-oriented clinical research led him to identify the observable traits that mark all psychopaths.  One of the dominant is lying, and no one characterizes it better than he did in the very first edition of his famous work ... The Mask of Sanity, published in 1941.

"[The psychopath] appears to have a total disregard for truth and is to be trusted no more in his accounts of the past than in his promises for the future or his statement of present intentions. ... The conception of living up to one's word seems actually to be regarded by him as nothing but a useful phrase with which to obtain his ends.  No matter how vividly or how repeatedly his utter falsity is demonstrated to him, he is not confounded but continues to expect his word to be regarded as a very serious matter."  The Mask of Sanity, p. 239 (1st Ed. St. Louis).

Female Psychopaths - Deceive, and Evade Laws

Psychopaths experience a feeling of exhilaration and thrill when they successfully manipulate and deceive others.  This feeds into their outsized sense of self-importance.  For the psychopath, laws exist for other people ... they can break them, skirt them, avoid them, knowing that they can either charm or explain their way out with a smirking smile if challenged.

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Female Psychopaths - Chronic Liars, Enormous Mendacity

A major facet of a psychopath's evil deeds is deception of others.  "Psychopaths are chronic liars and research indicates that we are most likely to be misled by the special skill we think we possess to detect lying.  The psychopath lies for many reasons, the most common to experience the feeling of contemptuous delight when the deception is successfully carried out. ... The mendacity of the psychopath is enormous ... . "  Because the psychopath is without conscience and feels no guilt, the positive feeling aroused by deception fuels the psychopath's grandiosity ... for, example, the belief of being smarter than others.    J. Reid Meloy, Ph.D,  The Mark of Cain

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Female Psychopaths - Metaphysical and Dark Traits

This morning I received an email from a celebrated psychologist who wrote on dark personality traits (e.g., psychopathy, narcissism, Machiavellianism, sadism, authoritarianism).  He labeled these personality traits "dark."  To further add to this, Dr. Robert Hare who developed the psychopathy checklist and world recognized psychopathy researcher wrote..."But the distinction between mentally ill killers and sane but psychopathic murderers was by no means easy to come by.  It resulted from a centuries-long scientific debate that at times bordered on the metaphysical."

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